|Stop looking for the perfect Haggadah... instead do like we do: blend.
A ModernTribe Strategy for Choosing a Passover Seder Haggadah
(1) Choose a basic Haggadah for everyone at the table -- we like the 30 Minute Seder Haggadah as this basic book. It is clear, colorful and inexpensive to furnish a copy for everyone.
Red is always hot but it's really in style this Spring as illustrated by the number of red table accessories popping up in stores everywhere. Inspired to create a red seder setting for Passover this year? ModernTribe has the red you need.
All are from Israeli designers
I've been looking for a perfect Haggadah. As the buyer for ModernTribe.com, months ago I'd gathered a dozen samples trying to find one or two to offer to my customers. As a rule, I won't sell something I wouldn't recommend to a friend. After reviewing the samples, I chose no Haggadot to sell on ModernTribe. Harsh, huh?
But then I had to choose a Haggadah for our seder, remembering last year's choice was entirely disappointing. I again looked through my stockpile. I chose four.
As is true at many seders, our guests were diverse in age and religious backgrounds. There was me, my athiest-believing-but-Jewish-living husband, my Reform Jewish parents, my four year old daughter, and a Christian friend. Since one of the most important purposes of the seder is to pass-on the story of the Exodus to the younger generation, I tried to gear the seder simple, light, and short, as is shrewd when you are passing-on to a four year old. At the same time, I wanted the seder to be meaningful and fun for the adults as well as informative for my friend for whom this was her first seder.
It wasn't until we got to the section on the Four Sons that I realized how well the four Haggadot I'd chosen fit with each of the four "personalities" or "dispositions" discussed during the seder and, to a degree, present in each of us.
For The Wise Within Us: we used A Family Haggadah II by Shoshana Silberman. This was our grown-up Haggadah which we used to stay in "order" and gain insight and depth when needed.
For The Wicked (Funny): we had Bangitout's Seder Sidekick. The comedic interludes made the adults laugh out loud (while our daughter played with her Ten Plagues Bowling Set). We especially enjoyed the Top 10 lists in David Letterman style.
For Our Simple Sides: we read from Richard Codor's Joyous Haggadah:A Children and Family Cartoon Haggadah for Passover Seder. This comic book style Haggadah is fun and colorful. It covers all the bases but in a very basic way.
For The Child Who Doesn't Yet Know How To Ask: we had Passover by Miriam Nerlove, a nicely illustrated book that explains the seder and the Exodus for young children. My mom showed our daughter the pictures as we discussed the Exodus events.
What a wonderful: wise, wicked, simple, and illustrated seder we had! I realized that as our child grows and as our guest list changes our seder and, therefore, our idea of a "perfect" Haggadah will change. I now understand there is no one "perfect" Haggadah, instead we will have to "blend" to create our own perfect-for-us mix.
If you click on the links for the Haggadot listed here you can buy them on Amazon.com.
Pics from our table setting for last night's seder:
Available from ModernTribe are the Surya Passover Seder Plate and the Jonathan Adler Bird Bowls.
We did have a shankbone but I was still boiling the meat off of it when we took this picture. Our shankbone came very meaty and Kroger charged us $9 for it.
Those of you who keep kosher likely know Susie Fishbein's series of kosher cookbooks, the first being Kosher by Design. This February, Susie is coming out with another book: Passover by Design. Even those of you who don't keep kosher may want to add this book to your library for its modern seder settings and unique recipes. Recipes include Thai quinoa (a berry that has the taste and texture of a grain) and giant zebra fudge cookies (zebra stripes are so in right now). And check out this table setting which includes individual seder boxes complete with all the necessities for seder participants. No more reaching across the table for the matza or maror -- you've got your own stash in front of you. The box even has a sake flask and tea towel for the ritual handwashing.
Passover by Design is scheduled for release on February 28th. You can reserve your copy at ModernTribe.com for 20% off the cover price and we'll ship it to you as soon as it arrives.
You can see more of a preview of the book here.
Thanks for the clever and modern ideas Susie!